Just a couple of links / references that I found useful in understanding a bit more about Asperger's. These are the ones that come readily to mind, I will add others at a later date:
On 13th December 2009 Talking Life discussed "Adults living with Asperger's Syndrome". I found it incredibly enlightening. This is the link to the podcast, though you would need to scroll down to find the appropriate episode: http://www.96five.com/rss/Default.aspx?pid=67
A couple of books I have read (again) recently which I found really useful:
"The complete guide to Asperger's" - Tony Attwood
"Asperger's Syndrome: A guide for parents and professionals" - Tony Attwood
If anyone is reading this and has any links / references they would like to share please add your suggestion(s) in a comment to this post.